Condolence: I'm so very sorry for your loss and would like to give you my most sincere condolences. I honestly cannot fathom how you must feel going through a loss like this. Because my own words may fall short, I'd like to share something with you that may provide some console. Philippians 4:7 shows us that God's peace "surpasses all understanding [and will] guard your hearts and your mental powers" in a time so difficult as this. However he doesn't just promise to provide comfort, but that he longs to bring back all our lost loved ones just as it is mentioned in John 5:28,29. I hope that the promises written in these scriptures help give you comfort and soothe you.